There’s something I’ve been thinking about more and more that inspired this post. It’s something that might be obvious to some of you, and I think it is to me too, but it’s just something I’m not sure people really think about much, me included. This post is about having something to offer. Yeah, I just used the word “something” four times in like three sentences. But I’m just going to roll with it.
And when I say “something to offer,”
I mean big things, important things, life-changing things. Things that keep
people on their feet (literally, mentally and emotionally). Am I talking about
the researchers who are making strides to cure cancer? Of course. How about the
leaders out there trying to solve the challenges that face the world’s
economies? Sure, them too. But offerings of that scale are not the focus of
this post. My focus is much smaller, the little things, the normal people.
Wives and husbands and children and brothers and sisters and mothers and
fathers…and yes, second cousins twice removed. Them too. This post is about how
everyone has something to offer, and how most of the time those things, however
small, tend to be the biggest offerings of all.
In the group we have people from all
over the world, of different ages, races, backgrounds, economic situations,
religions and on and on, and you know what? Each and every person in that group
has something to offer each other, and most of them don’t even realize it,
which is what makes it so much more special. Let me give you a few examples. On
a day to day basis I see:
-Encouragement! This is my favorite
of all, because this is a hard, hard world, one where surviving is easier said
than done. We all go through struggles and we all need encouragement. Well, the
members of my group are all about it, sharing their writing with each other,
offering praise, congratulations on small events in each other’s lives. It’s
simply heartwarming to watch and be a part of. This is a welcome relief from a
world where bullying has become common place, not just in schools, but in
workplaces and online and on TV. In many cases it’s accepted outright,
sometimes as entertainment. Well, not in my fan group. The members are nothing
but kind to each other. THIS IS HUGE! I can’t say it enough, a lot of people
(if not all people) have hard lives, and simple words of encouragement go a
LONG way.
-Comedy! I swear I’m laughing all
the time when reading the posts in the group. There are so many funny people
out there, many of them under the age of 18 (if I’m being honest, many of them
are like 13, 14 years old), that provide constant entertainment for the group
members. I believe that smiling and laughter are extremely important in life,
and can change the lives of people for the better.
-Caring! The people in the group
care about each other deeply. Someone says they’re sick or out of sorts, the
members are there to offer their shared sadness for another group member’s
suffering.
-Advice! Wow, I’ve been so impressed
with this aspect of the group. It sort of just happened, people (mostly Indie
authors), asking for advice about book blurbs, pitches, aspects of writing, and
the members totally jumped in and helped provide some really helpful advice. I
jump in to offer my own too, but mostly I can just sit back and watch the
members take care of each other.
-Stories! We have a Share your
Writing with the Group section where members can share anything really. I’ve
been so impressed by the quality of the poetry, short stories, and even chapter
books that comes through from the members. And again, the other members are so
encouraging to each other!
-Welcoming! The members are so
welcoming of new members, letting them feel like a valued new addition to the
group right away. And so they are!
I have so many more things to say,
but I don’t want to take all day getting to my point. What I’m trying to say is
that it’s the little things, the things that ANY of us can offer if we just
choose to, that can make the BIGGEST difference in the lives of others. I’m
trying to do better at remembering that, both for my own actions, and so that I
always recognize that any new person I meet has a story and has talents and has
SOMETHING TO OFFER.
Happy reading!
David Estes
